Sex for Women: Orgasms Unlimited
The average woman is built to come and come again. Oh, how yummy! Meaning that once you’ve mastered that first peak, the climb to the next one is absolutely obtainable. Women don’t require a refractory period like men do, so we’re able to stay aroused for longer and orgasm a second and third time with little effort.
Try maxing out foreplay. Yes, prolong it. Point your man south, to be specific. For most women, clitoral stimulation from oral sex is the easiest way for them to climax. And having your guy help you get there before intercourse means that your body will be geared up to come again and respond to the added vaginal stimulation during sex, rather than still struggling to orgasm for the first time.
And even if you don’t come during foreplay, don’t fast-track the fun stuff: Your guy pampering you down there still paves the way for multiples. If you’re aroused slowly, then you’ll stay aroused for longer, and unlike manual stimulation, his tongue is flexible, soft and strong — the perfect tool for making that happen.
Ask him to caress you down there with his tongue for a minute or so before pulling away for a few seconds. Then, have him dive right back in. Oral teasing techniques prime the body to expect that after each peak of sensation, another one is coming. And it remembers that lesson when you orgasm — after one, it’ll stay in that prepped state for more stimulation, putting you on the track to come again.
